Relationships – Viva Naija

You forced love and now you’re experiencing the Valentine’s Day Hangover

Rachel — Fri, 16 Feb 2018 17:07:49 +0000

Stop forcing love. Today is going to be frustrating for a lot of you. You will attempt to send that sms. Dial his number, hoping… Just this week, it was the time for lovey-dovey. Now, it’s over. Now it’s time for the Valentine’s Day Hangover. The reggae and blues have had their chance. Now your […]

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Find healing first

Victor C. Ibeh — Thu, 25 Jan 2018 15:45:38 +0000

Heal yourself After my marriage ended, it took me 16 months to heal completely. In all that 16 months, I never transferred aggression. I was only angry with the person who hurt me. I took my time and healed myself. You can’t heal others when you have refused to heal yourself. I paid my dues. […]

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Marriage does not lose a woman her identity

Nkechi Bianze — Wed, 24 Jan 2018 14:48:14 +0000

Subjugating women I once heard of the story of a woman whose father died sick because he had no money for hospital bills. Guess what? The woman had the money to pay for her father to receive a good treatment, but she couldn’t pay because not only did the moron she called a husband ban […]

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In this new year, perfect the art of moving on

Natalie Ewaen A. Usen — Tue, 02 Jan 2018 12:56:07 +0000

Moving on I know a lady who’s husband kicked her out of her matrimonial home and moved in with another lady. He later went as far as paying her bride price and now the lady has borne him two kids. While they were still married, the man made it a habit of beating her incessantly […]

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Darker side of love: inked husband suspected of strangling wife

Rachel — Sun, 31 Dec 2017 21:17:54 +0000

In September this year, this beautiful couple went viral after he tattooed her face on his back to mark their wedding anniversary. Now,he has been accused of strangling and pushing her down a flight of stairs. According to the NY Post, a pregnant mom was found dead Wednesday at the bottom of a basement staircase inside […]

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Sex, like death, is inevitable, so why don’t we talk about it?

Damilola J. Oladeji — Wed, 22 Nov 2017 20:44:19 +0000

Except you are impotent or, well, dead. This is a certain part of life that we refuse to embrace. I have seen sex mess up a lot of things. I have also had close calls with sexual scandals. Growing up, I had raging hormones that nobody was willing to talk about. But you know what? […]

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Do long engagements work? Jennifer Hudson breaks up with long term fiance David Otunga

Rachel — Sat, 18 Nov 2017 18:11:19 +0000

This sounds awful to say, but I am not at all surprised that this couple ended up here. Lord of the Rings and Miss Thang have been engaged since 19-kpiridim, and I’ve never even seen her in a white dress, not talk of a pap photo of her at a bridal shop! I mean, David […]

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What goes around comes around

Nkechi Bianze — Sat, 18 Nov 2017 14:30:47 +0000

What goes around comes around Nigerian married women will be crying that their husbands are cheating on them… “All men cheat” and all, but I recently got to learn that MOST of you slept with married men, dated them, milked them and helped them divert attention away from their wives before you got married, and […]

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Who has more Trust Issues, men or women?

Terry — Sat, 11 Nov 2017 09:54:56 +0000

The greatest barrier to emotional intimacy in a relationship is the struggle around trust. Where there’s no trust, there’s no love, which is a painful truth for people with trust issues. No matter how patient you can be Trust Issues may be your number one obstacle to connection, warmth, and intimacy. Below is a video by Olakanmi Amoo- Onidundu (MD/CEO […]

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Full-time housewives are failures? Pastor Funke Adejumo, a word please.

Sayo — Fri, 13 Oct 2017 13:31:41 +0000

Dear Madam Funke Adejumo ma, good morning. I just saw that video ma, and I understand your passionate desire to teach self-sufficiency to women, but ma, you need to chill. Ha! Ma, you need to chill oh; else, this your “passion” will crawl creepily on the skin of commonsense as an eerie desperation to teach, […]

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