Also I need to remind you that getting pregnant is not one of the ways to keep a man. You could lose him even with his seed in your womb. It would be better to lose him without getting pregnant. Losing him with pregnancy will make your situation worse. It is not worth it.
The second option is to decline. To do this, you must have proper understanding that marriage is not a do-or-die affair. You must be willing to cope with loneliness in case you are unable to get another man early enough. Declining his offer, you risk a break up. You have to weigh your options well. Remember that in reality, nothing is guaranteed. You are not guaranteed that he will remain in your life after the pregnancy. You will be called names and insulted for refusing to get pregnant, but remember that it is better than an accidental single parenthood. The task is draining. I cannot tell you the exact thing to do. I would only ask you to make an informed decision.
Do you agree with Victor? What would you have advised?
I am in a dilemma. I have been married for two years. My husband is a nice man and he has been trying his best to be the best of husbands to me. Before we got marred, his mother opposed the marriage claiming that I was older than her son and that she can’t allow him marry someone older than him. My husband stood his ground and we got married. I am just two years older. After we got married, I have been trying my best to show love and kindness to her. I have never used what she did against her.
My husband is hardworking but I earn more than him and I think his mother knows about it. I have been giving her financial gifts all along in order to be the good daughter in-law that I’m supposed to be. Recently, she asked me for a loan of 2 million naira. She claims she wants to use it for business and she would pay me back in 6 months. I asked her if she has told her son, she said no that she wants it to be between us. Here is the thing, I am worried. I don’t know if this is something I should be scared of. I really don’t know what it could turn into. Please, I need counsel.
Guys, let’s hear your thoughts! What do you think she should do?
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