Believing is not enough

Believing is not enough

Dear Young People, Everything is possible if ONLY you believe? Scratch that. Somebody lied to us. Believing is not enough. Everything is possible if you are ready to do whatever it takes to get it. That includes hard and...
Cheating

When I realized he was cheating on me

Cheating  I fondly remember a brief relationship I had with a boyfriend who treated me as if I was a total stranger after sex. For instance, after a round or two of ravenous, depraved intercourse at...
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Shade of Women Foundation Presents: Girls Can Code – 13th OctFober, Ibadan

Few things excite me as much as this project: a project dedicated to giving young girls the best start in life. When I saw the poster, it nearly brought tears to my eyes. The...
There's no shame in asking for help. It is a sign of integrity and strength

The Ask Methodology for Achieving More Support and Growth through Your Network

I've been almost totally swamped with work. I had to quickly come share this. Here's a quick fix on how you can help people to help you. Many of us are either ashamed to ask...
BANKY W RESPONDS TO CAR STALKER

What have you been reading if Not Banky W’s Bank Statements? 7 Hot...

Banky W’s stalker video which he described as "cringe worthy" is not to be brushed away so quickly. Some of us were just waiting for the dust to blow over so we can take...
marriage

A few thoughts on Marriage

1. Marriage benefits men more than it benefits women. 2. There are slightly more males in Nigeria than females. There are slightly more males on earth than females. (I'm bored of arguing this. Before you...
Daughters

Dear God give me daughters with sense

At 18, I was having sleepless nights over important things like whether to study Diagnostic Radiography, Mechanical Engineering, or Aeronautical Engineering. I was also contemplating whether to settle for University of Hertfordshire or University...
Self Worth

What is the price of your self worth?

Some things are eternally precious to me: 1. My dignity/self-esteem/self worth 2. My faith 3. My peace 4. My purpose 5. My personal relationships 6. My core values which include honesty, justice & integrity. 7. Human dignity Threaten any of these and...
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Coping Mechanisms for Under 30s in Harsh Economic Conditions like Nigeria

A lot of young people under the age of thirty are experiencing depression and most of them are probably hungry - literally and emotionally - and working hard to rise. They need coping mechanisms...
Funny anecdote

Dangerous market people

Funny Anecdote Some of the most dangerous people you will meet are found in the market, carrying heavy loads on their backs. This human trailer, transporting a large sack of potatoes or cabbages weighing 20...