Heal yourself

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Heal yourself After my marriage ended, it took me 16 months to heal completely. In all that 16 months, I never transferred aggression. I was only angry with the person who hurt me. I took my...
subjugating women

Marriage does not lose a woman her identity

Subjugating women I once heard of the story of a woman whose father died sick because he had no money for hospital bills. Guess what? The woman had the money to pay for her father to receive...
Moving on

In this new year, perfect the art of moving on

Moving on I know a lady who's husband kicked her out of her matrimonial home and moved in with another lady. He later went as far as paying her bride price and now the lady...
Dark Side of Love - Feature

Darker side of love: inked husband suspected of strangling wife

In September this year, this beautiful couple went viral after he tattooed her face on his back to mark their wedding anniversary. Now,he has been accused of strangling and pushing her down a flight of...

Sex, like death, is inevitable, so why don’t we talk about it?

Except you are impotent or, well, dead. This is a certain part of life that we refuse to embrace. I have seen sex mess up a lot of things. I have also had close calls...
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Do long engagements work? Jennifer Hudson breaks up with long term fiance David Otunga

This sounds awful to say, but I am not at all surprised that this couple ended up here. Lord of the Rings and Miss Thang have been engaged since 19-kpiridim, and I've never even...
What goes around comes around

What goes around comes around

What goes around comes around Nigerian married women will be crying that their husbands are cheating on them... “All men cheat” and all, but I recently got to learn that MOST of you slept with...

Who has more Trust Issues, men or women?

The greatest barrier to emotional intimacy in a relationship is the struggle around trust. Where there’s no trust, there’s no love, which is a painful truth for people with trust issues. No matter how patient you can be Trust...
Pastor Funke Felix-Adejumo

Full-time housewives are failures? Pastor Funke Adejumo, a word please.

Dear Madam Funke Adejumo ma, good morning. I just saw that video ma, and I understand your passionate desire to teach self-sufficiency to women, but ma, you need to chill. Ha! Ma, you need to...
Everything isnt about marriage

Everything isnt about marriage

My parents made sure we all took part in chores at home. No one was exempt and we even had specific days when we did our own environmental sanitation at home, where we would...

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