I’m surprised some people think integrity is a huge quality to ask of in a person you want to marry
A person without integrity shouldn’t even be your friend!
Let’s define integrity first:
The quality of being honest and having strong moral principles.
synonyms: honesty, uprightness, probity, rectitude, honour, honourableness, upstandingness, good character, principle(s), ethics, morals, righteousness, morality, nobility, high-mindedness, right-mindedness, noble-mindedness, virtue, decency, fairness, scrupulousness, sincerity, truthfulness, trustworthiness
A person without integrity and personal ethics -a good code of conduct- will betray you, steal from you, scam you, set you up, and can even kill you.
A man who can forge a school certificate is capable of a high level of deceit so don’t be surprised when he scams you of a huge sum of money.
I once got heart broken by someone not just because he cheated on me and co, but because he wasn’t whom I thought he was. He had zero level of integrity and could go about lying, deceiving, forging and saying anything possible as long as it suits his own purposes, regardless of who gets hurt. However this is someone you would see and say “Upstanding young man” but his personal code of ethics were in the dust.
Such people are dangerous. They will kill you and still have a good excuse.
One wanted to forge something very serious for me and I got so scared not only at the thought of being caught, but that someone could think of such with no issues whatsoever. One in my business class said whatever it takes to make your business succeed, do it regardless of what’s involved or who you’re taking advantage of. I shuddered because the guy had this nice smiling face.
Sometimes we get surprised when people hurt us deeply but we shouldn’t. If they can lie without thinking, make up things for their own good, do whatever it takes to have their way regardless of who gets hurt in the process, just wait, your turn will come if you don’t
Nobody is perfect but some values are uncompromisable. Infact don’t marry a man without integrity, also don’t marry someone without self confidence, avoid insecure people especially as a woman. Run from those who always tell you “no one is perfect” and use that as an excuse for all sorts of misbehaviour, that’s emotional blackmail. Avoid anyone you cannot really talk to, correct, or tell how they made you feel or how they’ve hurt you. I’ve been hit for asking someone why he was talking to me the way he did. Thank God I dodged that bullet, God loves me o.
Don’t manage my dear, Usain Bolt from such people. Even as friends!!!! Those people are fire on the mountains
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