Nkechi Bianze
Nkechi Bianze is the name. I love reading and writing, but I still haven’t come around to being comfortable with the “writer” tag, maybe because that puts some level of needless pressure on me. I’m highly analytical. I love love and I love life.
I’m passionate about advocating for the rights of children, the elderly and women. I am a feminist who advocates and believes in the need for a gender equal planet.
A good father
A good father
I have just watched a video of a little girl (She should be between 1-2years old). She was hyper excited and almost going crazy when her Dad got back. The sweet Dad...
Stop having children you cannot take care of!
Having Children
Five years ago, a childhood friend of mine came begging me for money. She said she “mistakenly” got pregnant.
She had just graduated from the University the year before, and was preparing for NYSC.
Her...
There are actually more men than women in the world
Busting modern day myths
What I don’t understand is how a few Nigerians pick on a moronic fallacy, and peddle it continuously. Even when you correct them, they still hold on tightly to their ignorance...
Marriage does not lose a woman her identity
Subjugating women
I once heard of the story of a woman whose father died sick because he had no money for hospital bills.
Guess what?
The woman had the money to pay for her father to receive...
There is dignity in labour
Dignity in Labour
In 2013, almost a year after I graduated from Engineering school in the UK, I went home for NYSC. One of my childhood friends came to visit me. She didn’t tell me...
It is all discrimination
Sometime earlier this year, I got chatting with a young Nigerian man who works at my former place of work. We used to talk during our break times, and after work. Talks led to...
HIV is not a death sentence
I feel I should write this. Who knows, it might give one or two persons the will to continue living and not give up.
I am friends with many HIV positive people.
I know a woman...
Dear Nigerian side chicks
Dear Nigerian side chicks,
The more I try to hate you people less, the more you come up with more crap that makes me hate you more.
It’s bad enough that many of you lack conscience...
What goes around comes around
What goes around comes around
Nigerian married women will be crying that their husbands are cheating on them... “All men cheat” and all, but I recently got to learn that MOST of you slept with...
Why i do not subscribe to Nigerian Christian Marriage counselling
There is a 99% chance that I will NEVER go to a Nigerian for marriage counselling. And there’s a 99.999999999% chance that I will NEVER go and see a Nigerian marriage counsellor who is...
