deadbeat-dads

Dear Victor: my ex is a deadbeat dad but pretends to be superman!

Good morning Victor, I need your counsel on a very serious issue. I am a divorced single mother of one. I have been divorced for 7 years and my child is 9. My ex is...
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Dear Victor: my husband’s sexual dysfunction is affecting our marriage!

Good evening sir, I am on the verge of a divorce. As I'm writing to you I'm fed up with my marriage of 6 months. After our marriage, I discovered that my husband is...
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Dear Victor: who do I choose between these two suitors?

Dear Victor I have two serious suitors. They are both without formal education, though very rich and successful in business. One is divorced but he is quite caring. The other appears arrogant to me. He...
Black couple - long distance relationship

Dear Victor: how to deal with work-related long distance relationships

Good morning Mr Victor, I reached out to you because I saw a post where you were tagged on Facebook. I hope you can help me with good counsel on this issue I want to...
Confused-Black-Woman-Dating

Ask Victor Ibeh: he keeps pressurising me to marry him but I know he’s...

Please sir, I am typing this with tears in my eyes. There's this guy I met on Facebook in 2013, we were not all that close. It was more a skeletal chat of "Hello....Hi..."...
satisfied black woman - femme

Dear Victor Ibeh: my wife prefers her dildo to me!

Good morning Sir, Please I have a very serious issue I want you to counsel me on. I just recently discovered that my wife has a dildo and she has been using it for the...
Premature ejaculation- frustrated couple - one minute man

Victor Ibeh’s Desk: I’m terrified of being a one minute man!

Good morning boss! I saw a very funny post about being a one minute man. Lemme tell you a part of my story that is funny and at the same time strange. I've not...
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Victor Ibeh's Desk: he wants anal s3x to preserve her virginity ?

Hi, happy Sunday! I'm like a huge fan or your write ups. The things you write are always an eye opener for me, may God almighty bless you abundantly. You are a blessing I want to...
Shocked-black-woman

Victor Ibeh’s Desk: he wants anal s3x to preserve her virginity 😲

Hi, happy Sunday! I'm like a huge fan or your write ups. The things you write are always an eye opener for me, may God almighty bless you abundantly. You are a blessing I want to...
Toy Boy wants money

Victor Ibeh's Desk: my toyboy is demanding a joint account! What do I do??

Hello Victor, I am at a crossroads, right now. I am an independent lady of 36. I have a good job, car and a house of my own. I've even got some investments here...

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